I was so pleased to have found this wonderful site run my Mark and Megan that I decided to get involved myself. I’m in the middle of all this right now (have had the first surgery, second surgery date TBA) and have some experiences that I think are worth sharing. I plan to begin with a rundown of my story thus far and then add some posts about particular issues that I have dealt with since (e.g., body image, coping, female perspective, complications from surgery).
First a little background about me. I’m a 27-year-old female from Canada. I am a Ph.D. student in psychology and a researcher for the federal government. I live with my boyfriend/partner/common-law….never know quite what to call him.
I was diagnosed in December 2005 with UC, although it only affected a small part of my colon. I responded well to medication and the prognosis was that I would most likely take medication for years, if not the rest of my life, and that would be that. I did have regular flare-ups (every spring) but a bit of extra medication and things were back to normal. That is, until this year. I had my usual spring flare-up, but the medication didn’t beat it back into submission after a few days as it normally does. I also had pretty severe nausea, which was a new symptom for me. My GI specialist was off sick herself and my family doctor referred me off to a new GI. New medications still did not work. I was progressively getting sicker, being able to eat little, losing an incredible amount of blood, having almost no energy and feeling very lightheaded. I would have to take breaks while trying to get dressed for work (Yes, I kept working too long. Yes, I was being stubborn about it.) Finally, I ended up being submitted to the hospital after a second ER visit where I was told I’d be in for 2 to 5 days. I’d basically get some IV steriods, get rehydrated and then get out of there.
Thing did not go as planned in any way, shape or form. Steroids did nothing. I tried Remicade (a drug that is more often used for Crohn’s disease, but has some testing on UC). Remicade is incredibly expensive (about $25,000 for a year – very thankful for my government job and benefits!) and there was enthusiasm about it, but it made no difference. At this point, I’d been in the hospital for almost 2 weeks and was receiving blood transfusions just to keep my hemoglobin at an acceptable level. I was experiencing excruciating bouts of pain. I couldn’t eat (Well, I have a liquid diet. I swear I will never eat Jello or plain broth ever again) and was receiving fluids and vitamins via IV. Options had run out and surgery was the only was I was going to get out of the hospital again (or be able to care for myself unassisted – I was extremely weak). I was told surgery would be done the next day and I could get the j-pouch surgery in 2 to 6 months. I consented, though in reality there was no other option. Every morning I would fast and then someone would come in to tell me that my surgery was cancelled for the day. This happened for a few days when finally a definite surgery date was set for 9 days after the original date.
The night before my surgery, my bowel perforated. Because of this, my surgery could not be performed laproscopically (I had the old-fashioned cut right down my abdomen). My abdomen was basically contaminated and my lungs got infected. I developed Acute Respiratory Distress Syndrome and was on and off life support for the next couple of weeks. The incision was infected and had to be reopened to be cleaned. The doctor’s gave me a 50/50 chance of surviving. I thankfully don’t remember the 10 days following surgery. I remember going into surgery and I remember waking up with a tube down my throat which was doing my breathing for me. I weighed 93lbs (I was a healthy 130lbs previously) and I couldn’t walk on my own. A tube inserted through my nose was feeding me. I couldn’t even shift myself up in bed (the nurses would slide me around by my sheet). My lungs had little holes in them from the life support machine and air was leaking out in my chest and neck. My lungs collapsed a few times. The most painful part was the chest tube which was inserted (4 times!) to drain the air and fluid.
Finally, finally, finally I was sent home after 2 full months in the hospital. Recovery was surprisingly rapid in the first little while. I went from using a walker to get around and not being able to get up off the couch unassisted to driving within a month. The progress seemed to plateau at that point, as I was functional, but very tired. I am still very tired (I’ve started working but only part-time and I am still on medical leave from school). My partner continues to remind me that I’m not feeling any less tired but I’m doing much more.
As stressful as all the sounds, it really is a worst-case scenario for most people and less than 3 months later I’m doing pretty well! It is sometimes frustrating to not feel normal, but given how I felt a couple of months ago (or in the days prior to surgery) this isn’t so bad! I’m adjusting to life with an ileostomy and I have a consultation to determine when the second surgery will be on October 16th. It is unlikely that it will be any time soon (probably in the spring) but the healthier you are going into it, the better the recovery. A few extra months with my friend (Lil’ Stomy, I like to call him. I think it’s normal to anthropomorphize your stoma. It doesn’t really feel part of my body. More like an extra appendage that needs attending to. Or a pet.) is worth improving the next surgery and recovery period.
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